Ask the other person if they’re willing to do their part
Do not demand anything of anybody. Instead, ask them if they’re willing to do their part. E.g. “Would you be willing to …..” This puts the other person at choice, and gets to the bottom of the situation - the other person is willing to accommodate my needs or they’re not. - If they want to do this, we move closer together and they do the thing with their own motivation. - If they don’t want to do this, then we can have an empathetic discussion about how get their needs met, or part ways amicably.
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- 119.027 NVC - Ask the other person if they're willing to do their part to 125.009 Books - Nonviolent Communication - Marshall B Rosenberg
- 119.027 NVC - Ask the other person if they're willing to do their part to 119.026 NVC - Demands move us farther apart
- 119.027 NVC - Ask the other person if they're willing to do their part to 119.023 NVC - Get what you want by helping them get what they want
- 119.027 NVC - Ask the other person if they're willing to do their part to 119.007 Conflict - Know what question you want answered
- 119.027 NVC - Ask the other person if they're willing to do their part to 116.054 Life Lessons - Ask for help
- 119 Communication to 119.027 NVC - Ask the other person if they're willing to do their part
- 119.026 NVC - Demands move us farther apart to 119.027 NVC - Ask the other person if they're willing to do their part
- 119.032 NVC - Do not imply judgement to 119.027 NVC - Ask the other person if they're willing to do their part
- 119.035 NVC - State your needs to 119.027 NVC - Ask the other person if they're willing to do their part
- 131.007 Leadership - Blame yourself or blame no one to 119.027 NVC - Ask the other person if they're willing to do their part