State your needs
How could I possibly expect my needs to be met if I don’t express them clearly and without implying guilt to the person who can help? Why would I ever expect another person to (or to be able to) guess my needs perfectly and fulfill them? Ludicrous!
If I don’t value my own needs, why would anybody else? If I’m constantly submitting to other’s needs and subsuming my own, why does anybody else need to acknowledge mine? Life is a two-way street, and I’ll best serve those in my life when I feel heard, acknowledged, and understood by them as well.
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- 119.035 NVC - State your needs to 125.009 Books - Nonviolent Communication - Marshall B Rosenberg
- 119.035 NVC - State your needs to 119.027 NVC - Ask the other person if they're willing to do their part
- 119.035 NVC - State your needs to 119.023 NVC - Get what you want by helping them get what they want
- 119.035 NVC - State your needs to 119.017 NVC - How to get what I want even when being screamed at
- 119.035 NVC - State your needs to 122.01.03 PM Skillset - Influence without authority
- 119.035 NVC - State your needs to 116.009 Life Lessons - The biggest cause of serious error
- 119.035 NVC - State your needs to 116.032 Life Lessons - What do you want out of this life
- 119.035 NVC - State your needs to 116.048 Life Lessons - Define the problem clearly then focus on the solution
- 116.121 Life Lessons - Be like Honest Abe and be honest to yourself no matter the cost to 119.035 NVC - State your needs
- 119 Communication to 119.035 NVC - State your needs
- 119.037 NVC - Follow up feelings with a clear request to 119.035 NVC - State your needs
- 119.051 NVC - Self-forgiveness not self-punishment to 119.035 NVC - State your needs
- 119.054 NVC - Act out of obligation or duty with open eyes to 119.035 NVC - State your needs
- 119.057 NVC - Am I angry - Wake up, your emotions are hijacking your brain to 119.035 NVC - State your needs
- 119.065.01 Emotion as a tool - Use feeling words to describe my needs to 119.035 NVC - State your needs