Make up your mind slowly and calmly
Lincoln held his tongue on every topic until he knew the subject inside-and-out, and had come to his own righteous conclusion. He was determined to “make up his mind calmly and deliberately, to adhere firmly to his own opinions, and neither to be bullied or cajoled out of them.” He listened to the opinions of many, but took pride in arriving at his own decisions, in his own time and way.
Much like Lincoln’s tendency to 119.068 Communication - Lincoln didn’t argue directly, he just delayed, this tenet is also at odds with much of what I’ve written in these notes over time. It’s much more likely to see 116.007 Life Lessons - A man who procrastinates in his choosing, 131.003 Leadership - Napoleon was fast at all times, 116.051 Life Lessons - It’s time to stop fucking around, 116.002 Life Lessons - I set the pace, 110.012 Startups - Launch early, iterate fast. However, given that I’m writing this note, it’s important to reconcile when I will be fast and when I will be deliberate.
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- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 125.014 Books - Abraham Lincoln - Team of Rivals
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 116.021 Life Lessons - Finish what you start
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 116.047 Life Lessons - He who best defines the problem usually wins
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 116.103 Life Lessons - Training endurance requires mental toughness
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 119.004 Conflict - Choose the right time and place for a difficult conversation
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 119.068 Communication - Lincoln didn't argue directly, he just delayed
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 132.002 Change - Slow to learn and slow to forget
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 116.053 Life Lessons - Postpone every subconscious decision
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 116.007 Life Lessons - A man who procrastinates in his choosing
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 131.003 Leadership - Napoleon was fast at all times
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 116.051 Life Lessons - It's time to stop fucking around
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 116.002 Life Lessons - I set the pace
- 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly to 110.012 Startups - Launch early, iterate fast
- 116.053 Life Lessons - Postpone every subconscious decision to 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly
- 126 Decision Making to 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly
- 126.012 Decision Making - Your first reaction is outdated to 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly
- 126.014 Decision Making - Refine your opinions over time to 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly
- 132.002 Change - Slow to learn and slow to forget to 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly
- 132.003 Change - Don't drink, just delay to 126.010 Decision Making - Make up your mind slowly and calmly