“Judging” somebody is violence toward them
Judging somebody else is violence.
Sometimes I use judgments to try and get somebody to do something. When I’m successful, I feel like I can frighten them, punish them, guilt them, to change behavior. I believe that it’s possible to change them through violence. This is not real change, it will revert as soon as I’m not around, and I would never want somebody to do this to me.
It also creates a self-fulfilling prophecy because I am already biased to see them in a certain way.
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- 119.056 NVC - Judging somebody is violence toward them to 125.009 Books - Nonviolent Communication - Marshall B Rosenberg
- 119.056 NVC - Judging somebody is violence toward them to 116.045 Life Lessons - If you ever have the urge to reply in a mean way
- 119.056 NVC - Judging somebody is violence toward them to 116.049 Life Lessons - You get what you give
- 119 Communication to 119.056 NVC - Judging somebody is violence toward them
- 119.032 NVC - Do not imply judgement to 119.056 NVC - Judging somebody is violence toward them
- 119.058 NVC - Punishing somebody is a terrible way to get what I want to 119.056 NVC - Judging somebody is violence toward them
- 119.059 NVC - When others hear blame they shut down and defend themselves to 119.056 NVC - Judging somebody is violence toward them
- 119.065.02 Emotion as a tool - Interpret the other person's emotions to 119.056 NVC - Judging somebody is violence toward them